In continuing from part (A) I would talk about on this issue what happened if it to decide to get married. Without a doubt will set yourself on a new life to be with the one that you truly love. You will begin to embark on a wonderful and exciting new world. Like everything in life there will be great moments and they will be not so great moments. There will be new sets of rules and conduct that you will have to learn. There will be sets of balance between two people in which they were struggle together in their life. There will be rules of ethics of moral values that a couple must have. There will be moments in which they will share each other suffering but together they would deal with it and overcome it. All of these have too much detail to go into it now for each couple of different and unique and the own way. This is something that they must learned together.
What I would like to talk about is the responsibility that you would have to take when you have a child. Not to rain on anyone parade but usually people fail to think before they take action. Sometime will push to a situation because everyone expect you to do. Your family tells you that you must have a child, society to tell you you must have a child because it is suspected of you. You must be truly honest with yourself and look deep inside. And am I ready and capable of raising a child?
People believe that if you do not have a child that you are not a complete person. And that is far from the truth. You cannot be thinking about yourself only. You must be thinking also about the child that you will bring in to this world. Usually one of the big mistake the couple does is that when they can no longer handle the situation the easy way out is simply a divorce. Unfortunately the has become a very fashionable thing in today society lately. At the end the one that were get hurt the most will be the child.
One of the big false that humanity has is that they will make decision based on emotion and passion rather than taking the moment to think it through. It has always been a good philosophy that we always learn from our mistake. But on this case a mistake can cost dearly to another person. There is really nothing here to learn but only go to a unnecessary suffering.
The other day I was talking to a family member thinking of all the wonderful moment and not so wonderful moment that I had were my family. I have been lucky to been raised by two parents. Like everything in life there have been that ups and down. But at least my parents took on the responsibility and dealing with the situation as they came about. But others have gone through some part of the life without one of the parents. It doesn't mean that it was the end of the their life, but it would have been better if they were together.
This is all I have to say at this moment but I may touch this issue again in the near future.
Before leaving any common case take a look at the important note to your right.
Bless you all and be well.
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