How is everything connected? (B)

    Hi there and welcome to my blog. In continuing talking about how is everything connected from part (A), I would talk about in this article, not like I did in part (A) in the physical sense, but in a mentally or spiritual sense. In the previous article, it was all about how we are connected in the physical world. But we are also connected in other ways that we are quite not aware of. So far scientists has been able to detect through electrical impulse created in your brains to find out which part of your brain control which part of your body. Scientists has also learned which part of your brain is used to determine your memories, creativity, learning process, emotion, mechanical understanding, your five senses process and many other things in which require your brain. And yet somehow, according to scientists we use only 10% our brain capacity.


For now I will talk about in another form in which we use our brain that may not fall in a scientific concept. I'm talking about mentalism. It is how what we think affect not only our physical body, but also affect your surrounding. I know there is no scientific proof or understanding in regarding to this subject. But like I mentioned before in other articles that this is based on my philosophy truth, which means that it is my truth, but you may consider it as a philosophy. In my studies of different religion and philosophy in which what we think it is send out into the world in the form of mentalism vibration affecting others and the world. That is why it is so important to always have a positive attitude and a positive mentality. Even though you may be in the privacy of your home with no one there, it does not mean that you cannot imposed on to others. Like I mentioned before that we are connected in many ways, in the physical world, but we also connected in the nonphysical world or spiritual world.

   When you send out negative thought toward others. It is almost like inflicting harm to other in a physical form. As to give you an example; I personally do not believe that the Islamic religion is not a religion but more as a cult. But whether that may be true, that does not mean I should wish upon them negative thought. Even though the Islamic cult ideology believe in killing and destruction toward other that does not believe in their Islamic ideology. It still does not mean that I should desire their destruction or death, for that would not make me better than them. What I should do is pray or think that somehow they will find freedom away from the Islamic cult.
I know there will be lots of people that will be totally disagreed with my objective. Especially those who had personal encounter that has received emotional or physical harmed due to the Islamic cult. Like for instant soldiers who had went to fight and stop the persecution caused by the Islamic cult, and has come back home with emotional or physical wounds. They will probably be the first one to tell me that one way to take care of the Islamic cult is by killing them all. I would totally understand the reason for that. Or have seen videos of what they are capable of doing toward other human beings. Even sometime I wonder if sending them prayer or positive thought would do any good. But on the surface it may not seem that it would do any good, but it does make some part a different.
By for an example, a parent raising a child. You tell a child that he or she should not play with fire, for it can cause severe pain if they do. But for some reason or another, the child neglect to understand what the parent was trying teaching them, and attempt to play with fire. So the parent have no other choice than to slap their  child on hands and announced in a more firm manner not to play with fire anymore for not only that it may harm the skin, but they will be punished if they continue to play with fire. All parents wish that their children can learn and obeying what their parents are trying to teach them. But apparently some time good words are not enough. But what I'm trying to suggest that we may try all different avenues in order to achieve the same objective.

But without getting into too much of an argument or debate and how we should pursue the Islamic cult. One thing is for certain that if we so desire for peace in our lives and in the world we must project and think peace toward other in the world. Thinking negative has never really solve any problem, but thinking positive does make a different. I say this based on personal experience. I knew of a person that always had a negative attitude toward everything and always made other people feel uncomfortable. But for some reason or another when that particular person came in contact with me that person had a different attitude. So why was that possible? It was simple, for I always send out toward that person to be covered in Bright light and desiring for that person to find peace within themselves. Because of that attitude I had toward the individual, when we come into contact that person for some reason was less negative when talking to me. This was not in any way mean controlling other people, rather than this was creating a harmony toward that person and me. That is my only proof and evidence that I have, in which I believe that sending positive thoughts toward others can make a different.

Not everything in this world can be proven scientifically, but sometimes you must go beyond the science and believe that you have a greater potential than your physically thinking. I believe if you have a soul that pursued life in a positive manner that you can project to other souls to bring out that positive attribute. But if you do not believe that you have a positive soul and you believe in the power of the mind. Then there is never a better time to begin to train yourself and to bring out that positive attribute. We all have it whether you believe it or not. For each and every single human being on this earth has the capacity to be influenced whether by negative or positive attribute. You have to make the first step in deciding what attribute you want to project into the world. But you must also remember that your action and you thought is like boomerang.

So that no matter what your throw onto the physical world it will also come back to you. If you throw positive thought you will receive positive action, if you throw negative thought you will receive negative action. I know a lot of you believing that. So despite everything that other may do no matter how terrible it may be, you must first try an effort and think toward them in a positive attribute.

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Wisdom from an Owl (S)

   Today begin a new day and the sunshine upon all humanity. Your path, your destiny, your creation, your future will determine what you do today. Even though it may not be exactly what you want, or what you desire, or what you wish, or even to make it perfect. Trying your best is all the matter. For not trying at all, make you madder. Success cannot be done in one day or not even in seven days. Try your best that you can and then rest if you can. For no matter what anyone say you are special, for all I'm trying to say that you are special.

   But for those of you in the scientific circle. I tell you the same for mostly everything is the same. Even though you believe in evolution, and everything has a mathematic sequent. Make today count every moment, for once it's gone, they won't be another moment. For every scientific mind even look for the perfect scientific equation. Tried the best you can for even your mistake can give you a new perspective. For recovery from a mistake would take you to a new discovery. So I tell you the same, for no matter what anyone say you are special.

By Roland Oliva, the Owl.

Wisdom from an Owl (R)

This is a special lock that everyone has in their house [which is called life].

But not everyone has the same combination lock [which is called your path].

You must find the right sequent to unlock the door [which is called understanding}.

You will find yourself looking for different combination to unlock the door [which is called experience}.

But at the end you will eventually find the right combination [which is called illumination].

When you finally open the door, you will discover that you were not in a house, but in a room. For there you will find another door with a another combination lock to unlock the door.

You must understand that you are a lump of coal, not a diamond. You must go through many rooms, many understanding, many experienced and many illumination until you become a diamond.


So begin to open doors.

By Roland Oliva, the Owl.

How to properly talk to someone (C)

    Thank you for visiting my blog it's nice to see you again. On previous article on "how to properly talk to someone" I spoke about civilize language and civilize conduct, whether in physical or social network. This article is going to be simple and short for it is about what I call (two-dimensional writing). For when you are speaking to someone physically many things happened in your conversation to bring out the meaning of what you're trying to same. There will be facial expression, tone of your voice and many other things that will convert your idea in your conversation. People will figure out what you're trying to say by by many things that you do when you are communicating with them. Like sarcasm, metaphor, insinuation, being cocky, being confrontation and many other form of expression that can be used in the conversation.  I'm not going to get into that for great deal of you have an idea of what I'm trying to say.
But when it come to communicating through the Internet or phone texting or even writing a letter, then you enter in a whole new dimension in communication. One thing that I'm learning is that when communicating through social network all those aspect that just mentioned above cannot be seen or reflected when writing in social network. If I write something funny or use sarcasm people make interpreted in a different or wrong way. I should know, for it has happened to me many time. People would take it in a wrong way and they would get offended or misunderstood in what I was trying to same. I know that there are classes and books that can teach me how to properly write and communicate in this two-dimensional form. But to be sincere I have no intention to write a book or become popular. But nevertheless, it is important to learn how to properly communicate with others.


  So I have been thinking of how I can deal with my limitation in my writing skill while in social network. So I came up with this small and yet simple idea. The next time I find myself writing to someone in social network and I would like to express a form of sarcasm, I will simply write at the end of that particular comment or statement the word sarcasm between two square brackets [] .


As for an example:
"I can jump over the train just like a blind man can drive [sarcasm]"


   Now, when I write that kind of statement people will know that I cannot really jump over a training and a blind man cannot drive the car. Even though I know that a great majority of the people are genius [sarcasm]. This may be a little bit silly for most of you, but I found myself it in some situation in which I got misunderstood in my statement. And believe it or not I myself have made the same mistake when reading other people comment or statement. I am not trying to complicate the process in which people communicate in social network, but this would help a great deal in people trying to understand what you're saying.

So once again, may my words float through the river of electric stream and find its way into your book that can even be read in the night without the guide of the moon or candle light [metaphor].

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Making a decision (A)

   Thank you for visiting and welcome to my blog. On this article I will be talking about making decision. From how we do it to why we do it. The reason I would like to talk about decision is that we make decision on a daily basis. In fact one of the major reason of humanity existing on this earth is to learn how to make and control our decision. 90% of our decision is made by you, and 10% decision come from within. Obviously the whole idea is to eventually to bring forth more of the decision within than the one you make. But that I would talk about in another article, for now let's talk about the one you make.

   Above you will see some image that I have put up. It is to give you an idea that not every decision is made in the same way. Some decision will be choosing the right path or road, other would be choosing the right door and to open and go through, and other is to choose the right direction you want to go to and other is finding a way out of a labyrinth. Of course you all know that I'm talking about in a form of a metaphor. Now there is an image of a dice with decision written on, this may be interpret as making decision based on somebody else or something else other than yours. For me that would be the worst form of making a decision. But of course many people make those kind of decisions. When you make a decision based on somebody else or something else you would probably be very likely to end up coming back to the same situation and making the decision.
In fact one of the decision you are making right now is to decide whether or not you would like to continue to read this article. For some people have already come to the conclusion that they have a unique technique in which they make all their decision using one form. So they do not need any other way to make their decision. And that is good for they have simplified their life and avoid complication. And the last thing I would like to do is to create complication in anybody life. But so far from what I've learned observing other people decision and my own decision is that there is a little bit more than just finding one technique or style in making decision. For every situation will manipulate many aspect of our emotion and intellect.

  So before I continue on I would like to say that if you are one of those person that find it difficult in always trying to make the right decision to avoid any mistake, and would like to find one technique or style in which you could apply one form to make all your decision. I'm sorry to tell you that there is not one size fits all solution. But don't feel disappointed for that is part of life. For I know that everyone is always looking and struggling to find ways to make things easier. There are some things you can do that are easier, but what did you do for situation in which you have to make difficult decision. You can always tried to avoid them by life has a way of showing it up and bring it back on the path. Believe it or not I do show it can make in which it will help them to begin to develop in learning how to to make different decisions. You will probably find it silly or even amusing but it does work. Above you would see an image that lots of you are familiar with, and it is the game of rock scissor and paper. Yes I know you're probably thinking how can you make the decision based on this silly game. And yes I know this will not help you in making big decision but it will help you to begin in train yourself in how you make decision. It will teach you how to observe other people in what they're going to do. It will help you in half to follow in your emotional, intellect and even though internal instant. Yes this silly game does this and more.


  Now coming back to the article and for those of you who already know that there is more than just a technique or style in making decision. I would tell you that before you use your emotional or intellect in making a decision. Always tried to pause for a moment and see how that particular situation make you feel. Does it affect your ego? Does it affect your emotional? Does it affect your intellect? When you begin to break down into little pieces you would discover that though situation should not really affect you as hard or as terrible as you imagine. Sometime some things will affect you in such a way that if you take your time to contemplate and looked at the situation it is really superficial. Of course some of you are thinking that sometime you will find yourself in a situation in which you have to respond or react quickly. That basically there is not enough time to sit down and pause and contemplate of all the possibilities called that particular situation may be of superficial and should not offend. I would agree with you. For what I have just told you require lots of practice in many years of different situation. But what I am telling you is to try to do those things even after you have made a decision and see if you would have made a better decision. For some time to even have enough time to go back to redo again all fixed that situation. By practicing this form of observation you will eventually develop in a way that would give you enough time to contemplate and still react to the situation.


  One thing is for certain that life cannot be decided by the roll of a dice. And for those of you who are reading this article and now contemplating of the decision you have made in the past and have now some regret, I would advise you that turned the page and move forward. For they are just some things that you just have to live with it. If you can go back and fix the situation, swallowed your pride and go back and fix the situation. But if you cannot then do not torment yourself and try to make the best of things. You will probably be surprised that somewhere in the path of your life in which that situation will come back and you will have the opportunity to fix it. I know I have not giving you enough insight in how you can better make a decision. But I just want to give you these basic information and I will come back to the subject in another article.

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Wisdom from an Owl (Q)