How to properly talk to someone (B)

 

   Good day and welcome to my blog. On my previous article part A on this subject I talk about how to properly talk to someone, whether to friends or loved one. And I've told you the important on public communication without the use of insult or other inappropriate words. Throughout human history communication has always been an important factor in not only how a society grow, but also its structure.
Our communication has evolved from word of mouth, then put words in stone. Then putting words in all kinds of material from the woods, all kinds of dry leaves , and then finally the invention of paper. Now more information is better able to communicate in far distant and greater massive.
But now since we have enter into the age of technology. Our form of communication has become greater and even worldwide communication. 1st we started with the Telegraph then the telephone then the Radio and then the Television, And now it has just been almost 35 year since the invention of the computer available to the general public. And our form of communication has change from mailing a letter to your friend to sending now an email.

  Now comes to the point in which I would like to talk about on this article. And that is Social Network. Not too long ago Facebook started as a simple project of communicating with friends into a worldwide socializing communication. And from there, a new form of language has developed. Like the terminology of the word troll which means someone who make a comment or join a conversation and make statement to agitate or annoying people in social network. That has developed greatly in Facebook because the great majority of the people that are in social network our young people. And it is usually typical of a young individual who has not yet developed the responsibility to act and behave in a responsible manner.

The reason for that kind of of behavior is simply because they can say things to other people without the physical confrontation. For the field they can easily get away with the things that they say without having to deal to confront physically. So they have developed a bad habit of insulting and degrading and even using inappropriate language when communicating with other people. What they fail to realize by developing this bad habit. They are now accidentally applying this in their regular conversation in the physical daily life.

And what you say and how you say it determine a great deal of the kind of personality that is reflected upon other people. The simple conversation will evaluate and judge you based on your conversation. The same thing in the Internet. If you wish people to debate with you and give them the desire to continue to have conversation with you, you must carefully choose the appropriate language. As a small example like the word "idiot". In a every day physical conversation, depending how you say this word it may sound innocent or it may sound a direct insult towards someone. But when you apply it on the Internet it may be in general be interpret as a direct insult. For when you are communicating on the Internet the writing is called "one dimension communication". But when you are physically talking to someone, it is called "multi-dimension communication". For that one word can mean different things depending how the person say it or express it through the physical body. But on the Internet there is no way to really know their intention of that word.

  If you would like more people to socialize with you and add you to their circle because they value your opinion. You must 1st learn to understand the proper communication is the key to success in social network. And that is why Google+ has grown more popular than Facebook. I have been only in social network for less than a year and I have seen the different between Facebook and Google+. It is probably because the older and more matured audience are joining Google+. But a lot of people from Facebook of discovering that Google+ has a greater variety of what they can do in regarding to social network. But unfortunately there also bringing the bad habit that had been established on Facebook. People have to begin to learn and understand that when you a socializing in social network, there are rules of conduct that have to be applied. Insulting and inappropriate word is no way to earn any respect. I do realize and understand that sometime people do get angry some philosophy that people have. I myself sometime find myself wanted to say @%#!&.
but I also understand that is a good way to reject people from wanted to continue to communicate with you. So I have found myself sometime when talking to other people telling them that insult and use of improper word is no way to relay your message that you are trying to put out. Sometime people at that point change their form of conversation, but yet sometime it doesn't. But I do my effort in trying to show people how to create difficulty communication in social network.

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