Making a decision (A)

   Thank you for visiting and welcome to my blog. On this article I will be talking about making decision. From how we do it to why we do it. The reason I would like to talk about decision is that we make decision on a daily basis. In fact one of the major reason of humanity existing on this earth is to learn how to make and control our decision. 90% of our decision is made by you, and 10% decision come from within. Obviously the whole idea is to eventually to bring forth more of the decision within than the one you make. But that I would talk about in another article, for now let's talk about the one you make.

   Above you will see some image that I have put up. It is to give you an idea that not every decision is made in the same way. Some decision will be choosing the right path or road, other would be choosing the right door and to open and go through, and other is to choose the right direction you want to go to and other is finding a way out of a labyrinth. Of course you all know that I'm talking about in a form of a metaphor. Now there is an image of a dice with decision written on, this may be interpret as making decision based on somebody else or something else other than yours. For me that would be the worst form of making a decision. But of course many people make those kind of decisions. When you make a decision based on somebody else or something else you would probably be very likely to end up coming back to the same situation and making the decision.
In fact one of the decision you are making right now is to decide whether or not you would like to continue to read this article. For some people have already come to the conclusion that they have a unique technique in which they make all their decision using one form. So they do not need any other way to make their decision. And that is good for they have simplified their life and avoid complication. And the last thing I would like to do is to create complication in anybody life. But so far from what I've learned observing other people decision and my own decision is that there is a little bit more than just finding one technique or style in making decision. For every situation will manipulate many aspect of our emotion and intellect.

  So before I continue on I would like to say that if you are one of those person that find it difficult in always trying to make the right decision to avoid any mistake, and would like to find one technique or style in which you could apply one form to make all your decision. I'm sorry to tell you that there is not one size fits all solution. But don't feel disappointed for that is part of life. For I know that everyone is always looking and struggling to find ways to make things easier. There are some things you can do that are easier, but what did you do for situation in which you have to make difficult decision. You can always tried to avoid them by life has a way of showing it up and bring it back on the path. Believe it or not I do show it can make in which it will help them to begin to develop in learning how to to make different decisions. You will probably find it silly or even amusing but it does work. Above you would see an image that lots of you are familiar with, and it is the game of rock scissor and paper. Yes I know you're probably thinking how can you make the decision based on this silly game. And yes I know this will not help you in making big decision but it will help you to begin in train yourself in how you make decision. It will teach you how to observe other people in what they're going to do. It will help you in half to follow in your emotional, intellect and even though internal instant. Yes this silly game does this and more.


  Now coming back to the article and for those of you who already know that there is more than just a technique or style in making decision. I would tell you that before you use your emotional or intellect in making a decision. Always tried to pause for a moment and see how that particular situation make you feel. Does it affect your ego? Does it affect your emotional? Does it affect your intellect? When you begin to break down into little pieces you would discover that though situation should not really affect you as hard or as terrible as you imagine. Sometime some things will affect you in such a way that if you take your time to contemplate and looked at the situation it is really superficial. Of course some of you are thinking that sometime you will find yourself in a situation in which you have to respond or react quickly. That basically there is not enough time to sit down and pause and contemplate of all the possibilities called that particular situation may be of superficial and should not offend. I would agree with you. For what I have just told you require lots of practice in many years of different situation. But what I am telling you is to try to do those things even after you have made a decision and see if you would have made a better decision. For some time to even have enough time to go back to redo again all fixed that situation. By practicing this form of observation you will eventually develop in a way that would give you enough time to contemplate and still react to the situation.


  One thing is for certain that life cannot be decided by the roll of a dice. And for those of you who are reading this article and now contemplating of the decision you have made in the past and have now some regret, I would advise you that turned the page and move forward. For they are just some things that you just have to live with it. If you can go back and fix the situation, swallowed your pride and go back and fix the situation. But if you cannot then do not torment yourself and try to make the best of things. You will probably be surprised that somewhere in the path of your life in which that situation will come back and you will have the opportunity to fix it. I know I have not giving you enough insight in how you can better make a decision. But I just want to give you these basic information and I will come back to the subject in another article.

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