In continuing from part A in regarding to the emotional aspect.
We all in one time or another have felt offended by other of what they have said. We can all be easily be offended by a statement or remarked. Obviously you all know that we should not be offended so easily. But we do and before we react we should be able to think before we go on. You do not want to find yourself in a situation that because of someone's else remarked you will put yourself in a position that you will regret it.
Before that time ever happen a small suggestion that you should do. You should build a good self-esteem foundation. This is an important tool in dealing with our daily suffering. First find a piece of paper or a notebook and write down all the good quality that you have no matter how small it is. Put down your skills, knowledge, abilities, talent that you may have. When you are done and finish , despise everything that you put on the list that is very important you should put one last item that is far more important. That you as a soul are a piece of everything that is great in this great universe. With that said, you should be able to confront and deal with your daily suffering for whenever they may be.
Despise of whatever limitation you may have you can rest assure that within yourself there is no limitation. When you find this and believe in yourself ,very little will affect you in any emotional suffering.
You must also realize that sometimes life is like a bus stop, it is only a matter of time when the bus of life will take you to a greater moment in your life. And if you are in the bus of life and something terrible occurred just remember that you will be getting off the bus sooner or later. I hope you like this metaphor.
Finding the right balance between your personality, your ego and your self-esteem is very trickery. One way to begin in learning how to balance all of these aspect you should look for inspirational quote and philosophy from different sources. This will inspire you and help you grow internally. This will help you begin to establish a good foundation within yourself. You're probably wondering why make so much effort in focusing within yourself when the problem lies within other people. It is they do have offended you to begin with. That is true but like I explained in part (A) when other people are unwilling to understand how it has made you feel. You must then focus within yourself in order to deal with the situation. It has always been said that before you change the world the much changed within yourself.
That is all I have to say at this moment but I will touch the subject again in the near future.
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Many blessing and be well.
