When should I get married? That is something people always ask to themselves. First let's take a look at what are some of the principal of marriage. Since ancient time people used to get married for the reason of uniting two family that may have something in common like wealth,property, become a citizen of a country or tribe or even because of their title. Even today we still do the same as ancient time but now people do it to even have a tax benefit . These are not definitely not because of love.
People also have the wrong concept that they think that marriage is the ultimate symbol of love. When in reality the ultimate symbol of love is respecting one another for who they are. Sometime they meet someone absolutely wonderful, but as time goes by they would see some few little false that they have. So they think to themselves that one day when we get married I will change some of their false. This is not ultimate love.
The real purpose and function of marriage is to propagate and become a teacher. That is why that not everyone is ready to become married. This does not mean that you are not man enough or woman enough to take on the responsibility of raising a child. Remember not everybody is born to be able to do everything. And it also does not mean that you are not capable of carrying or loving a child. I'm not trying to complicate that raising a child is complicated. But it does require to have some level of psychology in order to deal with the emotional aspect, a teacher to guide them through their mental understanding, and a spiritual person to guide them through the spiritual aspect. We are all not born with a guidebook to teach ourselves this balance.
What make us different between the animal kingdom and the human kingdom is that we should not raise our children as wild animal that they should learned along the way. You should be able to be prepared to guide them through each step of the life. As much as we would like to be a parent not everybody has the understanding or the patient to do so. We should have the responsibility to know if you have the skill or not. A lot of you may think this is simple and easy. But you would be surprised how many people have made the wrong assumption.
That's all I have to say at this moment but I will continue this on part (B).
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Bless you all and be well.
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