Raising a happy child. (A)

   On this issue I will talk only the very basic and not get into too much detail. The reason for is that each family circle is based on different situation and condition. Although a lot of people would like to compare the animal kingdom with humanity and that would be the first mistake.The reason for because the reason for because in the animal kingdom it is based fully on instance, while humanity is based on comprehension. While in no doubt we are a little bit more complex in our development, but of course we are not too complex that we are unable to deal with.

   First thing I would like to make clear that I am not an expert or a psychiatrist. But I will be referring based on experience, observation and other child studies. One thing is for sure that before anyone contemplate in beginning a family they must have the very basic reason for doing so. The two things you must ask yourself if you're thinking to start a family is, do you have the will and the patient to take upon the task. I did not mention if you have the desire, because everybody have the desire to have a child but unfortunately they do not have the will or the patient to do deal with a child.

   You can make a list of what you think could be the top 10 or the top 100 thing that you need to know in order to raise a happy child. But what I have seen and what the expert has study and all agreed with, is that on the very top list in beginning of a healthy and happy child it that you should give them as much attention as possible. Other people may disagree and put on the very top on the list that it be love.
    But you will be surprised how there are a lot of parents out there that would love this child so much, but would not take the time to give attention as to what a child is feeling. In the my blog article "making a happy home" I have mention a little bit on how to give attention to a child. I know a lot of you worked very hard and when you come home all you want to do is eat a good meal and sit back on the recliner and relax. But I can tell you one thing you would not be able to complete relax when you neglect to give your child some attention. They will begin to have that habit that eventually make you environment at home unable to truly relax. They will begin to have destructive habits and reckless behavior in which you have to do deal with sooner or later.
   Everybody assumed that giving your child some attention will require a great deal of your time, and that is far from the truth. Just a few moments of your time when they come from school and talk to them as to how was the day was.You will be able to deal with a lot of issues before they become a big problem. If you do not give those few moments of attention the child they will look for another source as to how to deal with his or her problem. There will probably look upon their friends to resolve the problem when they themselves do not know the different from the right and wrong, or they would look upon someone else that will probably give them the wrong advice.

   You will be surprised how 25 or 30 minute of your attention can make a big different in the child development. But like I said in the beginning if you simply do not have the will or the patient my advice would be to dismiss the idea of creating a family no matter how much desired you have. You must remember  that you are not only going to be a parent but you also going to be a teacher a guiding counselor and a friend. They are many more details on how to raise a happy child, but that is something that you should do a little bit more research or get some advice on other parents that already have a child. Everybody believes that all you have to do just just feed your child and give him some love and a roof on top of the their head and that is all they need. That will probably be something that you would do to an animal but a human is a little bit more complex than that.

   I hope this was helpful for you and giving you some guideness.

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Bless you all and be well.