How to properly talk to someone (A)

   Although I'm not an expert in the art of conversation, something are just plain old common sense. We as a society have been for many years developed a new and colorful way of speaking. Although I always feel that freedom of speech and expression is a wonderful thing, but I also consider it to be a privilege. There are many part of the world that what you say may put you in prison or even to death. So being here in the United States freedom to say what ever you one is considered to be a luxury, and it doesn't matter what is your financial, race or gender you may be. But like everything in life what ever you do it must be done in a moderate way and always it balance.

    What I would like to talk about in this article is particular word that you use in a conversation or when you are communicating electronically. Even though sometime a conversation might escalate to be become a strong debate or even become agitated in the conversation, I still believe that you can communicate your ideas without using certain words. I'm talking about words like {f--k, sh-t, a-s} and so on. Although a lot of people would consider this to be in the ethic category, I will consider it to be more like a level of intellect. For you can quickly be judge by what you use in certain words. When you are in a conversation with anyone you would like them to know that the conversation is going to be in a enlightenment one. You would like them to know that this is going to be a clear debate with a interchanging of information and ideas. Sometime we get very passionate when we are expressing our self but I still believe that we can hold our tone and show the other person how you are feeling. The reason I say this that when people say f--k you are telling them how extremely anger or concerning you are. But you can still express yourself how you feel by choosing other words. I'm not going to get into this because they are many scenarios in situation. I'm just going to keep this article simple and superficial.

 

   We need to learn and develop a better form of communication if you would like to secede in life. This may be whether in socializing with friends or family or in business when you are with the customer and trying to make a presentation but with your coworkers when you are in a meeting. One little slipup of using the word like sh-t and you can lose the opportunity of having good company of Guinea respect from your family. And in business you can lose a potential customer contract or a establish a bad working environment in which a may cost your job.

    We have developed a lot of bad habits of proper speaking at a very young age. Some of us have done it for so long that it has become part of a normal vocabulary. And that may be a problem in the near future when you on a conversation and you might accidentally slip and say Oh f--k. I know some of you see this as humor but if you take a good look at your life in the past you will probably notice how people have reacted when you said those words, and if you can recall how people then afterward look upon you and treat you.

    I still believe you can have some cool and wild friends without necessarily expressing yourself with dirty words. It is difficult for nowadays you we see the kind of behavior in just about every movie there is and now they're showing it in television even though they will "bleep" it out. But still you are showing the viewers that this is a normal conversation. They made use the "bleep" as much as they one but it would not show society that this is an intelligent conversation.

 

    But when you find yourself in a situation that you are confronted with someone that does not carry those same kind of values of proper conversation you can still hold your ground and express yourself without putting yourself in a lower level. In fact if you ever find yourself in a situation like that and you keep yourself from using dirty word you would notice that the other person would then changed his form of communication. You will see that the other person would notice that you are more refined a civilized person and he would like to show that he can be as equal. I have personally have tried them many time in the person expressing themselves using a lot of dirty words they began to reduce that form of language when they saw that I it was expressing myself with the same loud concerned but not using dirty words.

    I truly believe that you can show people how agitated you are by how you properly talk to someone. This not only show how of the gentleman or lady you are but the level of intellect you have and you do not have to be a NASA employee. It is very hard to express how you life can change the moment you open your mouth. So many things can come your way or so many things might get away. People always say actions speak louder than words, but sometime words speak louder than action.

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