Appreciating for what you have. (B)

    Welcome to my blog and I hope you're going to like this article. My way of speaking and thinking has always been in a way of metaphor and Theosophical so I hope you will be able to follow. I do not do this to complicate things or to impress people, but simply is the way I express myself.

    For a very long time people has debated the half-full and half-empty glass philosophy. Yes I call it philosophy because of many different philosophy and even wisdom has arise from this simple situation. The scenario of half-full and half-empty can be applied for just about any situation in your life. It can be used for politics, scientific, business, farming and even your personal life. In this article I will apply in our personal life, but even that has many different areas. In your personal life it can be applied on what you think, eat, feel and it can also be applied on family relation, friends and companion.

Let us see where this would take us. I would like to begin by saying that the glass represent the physical form, whether it is your body or the world, and the water represent the things in this world or the things that you putting your body or in your mind. Let us saying that the glass represent the body and the water represent the experience that came across in your life. People always complaining on how other people has experienced more than themselves. But what many people have failed to see that even though other have more experience throughout life but has done very little to fulfill them.
In another word your cup may be half-full on what little experience you may have had in your life, but the other person may also have their cup may be half-full also by their many experience they have had in their life. So how could that be possible that two people have their cup half-full? Because the person that had less experience that came in their life has giving them more strength and wisdom then the person that had more experience that came across their life. In another word it is not the quantity but the quality. Putting this in a metaphor point of view, one may have a cleaner and pure water then the other person that has cloudy and impure water.

So the problem does not fall within what others may or may not have but to see what you have and has reach to. You should be more concerned about your cup then the other person cup. For at the end you are the one to have to drink the water that you have put in your cup. You are going to be responsible for the things you put within yourself. All the good and bad experience that came across your life you should have taken it to give you more strength and more wisdom. But other have taking the experience that came across their life and had gained less strength and less wisdom. The journey through life may not be the same learning experience as other. If you would take two people and expose them to the same situation, at the end the result would be different from those two individual.

One may also say that the cup may not be the same for everybody. The size of the cup may be the same but the thickness of the glass may be different. That could be interpreted as to the physical body. Some people may be more flexible than other and some people may have more or less limitation of what they can do. But nevertheless the quality of the water that go within the cup is your responsibility. Only you are responsible for your actions and how it takes you through your life.

    You must realize that when you came into this world you came into this world with an empty cup. What you put in is simply your responsibility. You can put in your cup alcohol, soda full of sugar, coffee or impure water. Or you can put in your cup pure water, herbal tea or natural juice. But there is also something that people do not realize that along the way through the experience of life you can always change the content inside the cup. If for some reason you discover that you have impure water, simply remove the impure water and add pure water. It may sound very simple but for many people it may not sound that simple. Sometime removing ideas and philosophy may indicate to other people that they were wrong when all this time they were saying that they were right. So they become stubborn and refused to remove the unwanted liquid in their cup to show that they are unwilling to back down or change. Of course there could be a situation in which you are right but the other person is unwilling to admit that there wrong. Yes I know sometime some philosophy is a tug-of-war. That is why you must only see but a sincere and honest point of view of what you have put in your cup throughout the journey of life. Only you can judge and criticize yourself for only you can have to live with yourself for your actions.

I myself has changed the content of what was in my cup many times throughout my life. I try not to worry too much about what others may think, but tried to see the content that I put in my cup. For at the end of the circle of life you will take what you have put inside your cup and taking to your next destination. No one is going to help me cross the bridge for it is my responsibility and the will to take me to the next level. Yes I do listen to others point of view and philosophy and wisdom. But for at the end it is not going to be the point of view, philosophy or wisdom that is going to help me cross the bridge but is going to be my very own action and will that would take me across. Those other sources are only going to be my guide and instruction on how I should do and understand things.

Here are some point of view on how one can interpret the half full and half empty philosophy.

  There are many more things I can talk about regarding to this philosophy, but for now I'm going to leave it to that. I hope you can walk away with some new insight and wisdom to add and improve your life.
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How is everything connected? (B)

    Hi there and welcome to my blog. In continuing talking about how is everything connected from part (A), I would talk about in this article, not like I did in part (A) in the physical sense, but in a mentally or spiritual sense. In the previous article, it was all about how we are connected in the physical world. But we are also connected in other ways that we are quite not aware of. So far scientists has been able to detect through electrical impulse created in your brains to find out which part of your brain control which part of your body. Scientists has also learned which part of your brain is used to determine your memories, creativity, learning process, emotion, mechanical understanding, your five senses process and many other things in which require your brain. And yet somehow, according to scientists we use only 10% our brain capacity.


For now I will talk about in another form in which we use our brain that may not fall in a scientific concept. I'm talking about mentalism. It is how what we think affect not only our physical body, but also affect your surrounding. I know there is no scientific proof or understanding in regarding to this subject. But like I mentioned before in other articles that this is based on my philosophy truth, which means that it is my truth, but you may consider it as a philosophy. In my studies of different religion and philosophy in which what we think it is send out into the world in the form of mentalism vibration affecting others and the world. That is why it is so important to always have a positive attitude and a positive mentality. Even though you may be in the privacy of your home with no one there, it does not mean that you cannot imposed on to others. Like I mentioned before that we are connected in many ways, in the physical world, but we also connected in the nonphysical world or spiritual world.

   When you send out negative thought toward others. It is almost like inflicting harm to other in a physical form. As to give you an example; I personally do not believe that the Islamic religion is not a religion but more as a cult. But whether that may be true, that does not mean I should wish upon them negative thought. Even though the Islamic cult ideology believe in killing and destruction toward other that does not believe in their Islamic ideology. It still does not mean that I should desire their destruction or death, for that would not make me better than them. What I should do is pray or think that somehow they will find freedom away from the Islamic cult.
I know there will be lots of people that will be totally disagreed with my objective. Especially those who had personal encounter that has received emotional or physical harmed due to the Islamic cult. Like for instant soldiers who had went to fight and stop the persecution caused by the Islamic cult, and has come back home with emotional or physical wounds. They will probably be the first one to tell me that one way to take care of the Islamic cult is by killing them all. I would totally understand the reason for that. Or have seen videos of what they are capable of doing toward other human beings. Even sometime I wonder if sending them prayer or positive thought would do any good. But on the surface it may not seem that it would do any good, but it does make some part a different.
By for an example, a parent raising a child. You tell a child that he or she should not play with fire, for it can cause severe pain if they do. But for some reason or another, the child neglect to understand what the parent was trying teaching them, and attempt to play with fire. So the parent have no other choice than to slap their  child on hands and announced in a more firm manner not to play with fire anymore for not only that it may harm the skin, but they will be punished if they continue to play with fire. All parents wish that their children can learn and obeying what their parents are trying to teach them. But apparently some time good words are not enough. But what I'm trying to suggest that we may try all different avenues in order to achieve the same objective.

But without getting into too much of an argument or debate and how we should pursue the Islamic cult. One thing is for certain that if we so desire for peace in our lives and in the world we must project and think peace toward other in the world. Thinking negative has never really solve any problem, but thinking positive does make a different. I say this based on personal experience. I knew of a person that always had a negative attitude toward everything and always made other people feel uncomfortable. But for some reason or another when that particular person came in contact with me that person had a different attitude. So why was that possible? It was simple, for I always send out toward that person to be covered in Bright light and desiring for that person to find peace within themselves. Because of that attitude I had toward the individual, when we come into contact that person for some reason was less negative when talking to me. This was not in any way mean controlling other people, rather than this was creating a harmony toward that person and me. That is my only proof and evidence that I have, in which I believe that sending positive thoughts toward others can make a different.

Not everything in this world can be proven scientifically, but sometimes you must go beyond the science and believe that you have a greater potential than your physically thinking. I believe if you have a soul that pursued life in a positive manner that you can project to other souls to bring out that positive attribute. But if you do not believe that you have a positive soul and you believe in the power of the mind. Then there is never a better time to begin to train yourself and to bring out that positive attribute. We all have it whether you believe it or not. For each and every single human being on this earth has the capacity to be influenced whether by negative or positive attribute. You have to make the first step in deciding what attribute you want to project into the world. But you must also remember that your action and you thought is like boomerang.

So that no matter what your throw onto the physical world it will also come back to you. If you throw positive thought you will receive positive action, if you throw negative thought you will receive negative action. I know a lot of you believing that. So despite everything that other may do no matter how terrible it may be, you must first try an effort and think toward them in a positive attribute.

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Wisdom from an Owl (S)

   Today begin a new day and the sunshine upon all humanity. Your path, your destiny, your creation, your future will determine what you do today. Even though it may not be exactly what you want, or what you desire, or what you wish, or even to make it perfect. Trying your best is all the matter. For not trying at all, make you madder. Success cannot be done in one day or not even in seven days. Try your best that you can and then rest if you can. For no matter what anyone say you are special, for all I'm trying to say that you are special.

   But for those of you in the scientific circle. I tell you the same for mostly everything is the same. Even though you believe in evolution, and everything has a mathematic sequent. Make today count every moment, for once it's gone, they won't be another moment. For every scientific mind even look for the perfect scientific equation. Tried the best you can for even your mistake can give you a new perspective. For recovery from a mistake would take you to a new discovery. So I tell you the same, for no matter what anyone say you are special.

By Roland Oliva, the Owl.

Wisdom from an Owl (R)

This is a special lock that everyone has in their house [which is called life].

But not everyone has the same combination lock [which is called your path].

You must find the right sequent to unlock the door [which is called understanding}.

You will find yourself looking for different combination to unlock the door [which is called experience}.

But at the end you will eventually find the right combination [which is called illumination].

When you finally open the door, you will discover that you were not in a house, but in a room. For there you will find another door with a another combination lock to unlock the door.

You must understand that you are a lump of coal, not a diamond. You must go through many rooms, many understanding, many experienced and many illumination until you become a diamond.


So begin to open doors.

By Roland Oliva, the Owl.

How to properly talk to someone (C)

    Thank you for visiting my blog it's nice to see you again. On previous article on "how to properly talk to someone" I spoke about civilize language and civilize conduct, whether in physical or social network. This article is going to be simple and short for it is about what I call (two-dimensional writing). For when you are speaking to someone physically many things happened in your conversation to bring out the meaning of what you're trying to same. There will be facial expression, tone of your voice and many other things that will convert your idea in your conversation. People will figure out what you're trying to say by by many things that you do when you are communicating with them. Like sarcasm, metaphor, insinuation, being cocky, being confrontation and many other form of expression that can be used in the conversation.  I'm not going to get into that for great deal of you have an idea of what I'm trying to say.
But when it come to communicating through the Internet or phone texting or even writing a letter, then you enter in a whole new dimension in communication. One thing that I'm learning is that when communicating through social network all those aspect that just mentioned above cannot be seen or reflected when writing in social network. If I write something funny or use sarcasm people make interpreted in a different or wrong way. I should know, for it has happened to me many time. People would take it in a wrong way and they would get offended or misunderstood in what I was trying to same. I know that there are classes and books that can teach me how to properly write and communicate in this two-dimensional form. But to be sincere I have no intention to write a book or become popular. But nevertheless, it is important to learn how to properly communicate with others.


  So I have been thinking of how I can deal with my limitation in my writing skill while in social network. So I came up with this small and yet simple idea. The next time I find myself writing to someone in social network and I would like to express a form of sarcasm, I will simply write at the end of that particular comment or statement the word sarcasm between two square brackets [] .


As for an example:
"I can jump over the train just like a blind man can drive [sarcasm]"


   Now, when I write that kind of statement people will know that I cannot really jump over a training and a blind man cannot drive the car. Even though I know that a great majority of the people are genius [sarcasm]. This may be a little bit silly for most of you, but I found myself it in some situation in which I got misunderstood in my statement. And believe it or not I myself have made the same mistake when reading other people comment or statement. I am not trying to complicate the process in which people communicate in social network, but this would help a great deal in people trying to understand what you're saying.

So once again, may my words float through the river of electric stream and find its way into your book that can even be read in the night without the guide of the moon or candle light [metaphor].

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Making a decision (A)

   Thank you for visiting and welcome to my blog. On this article I will be talking about making decision. From how we do it to why we do it. The reason I would like to talk about decision is that we make decision on a daily basis. In fact one of the major reason of humanity existing on this earth is to learn how to make and control our decision. 90% of our decision is made by you, and 10% decision come from within. Obviously the whole idea is to eventually to bring forth more of the decision within than the one you make. But that I would talk about in another article, for now let's talk about the one you make.

   Above you will see some image that I have put up. It is to give you an idea that not every decision is made in the same way. Some decision will be choosing the right path or road, other would be choosing the right door and to open and go through, and other is to choose the right direction you want to go to and other is finding a way out of a labyrinth. Of course you all know that I'm talking about in a form of a metaphor. Now there is an image of a dice with decision written on, this may be interpret as making decision based on somebody else or something else other than yours. For me that would be the worst form of making a decision. But of course many people make those kind of decisions. When you make a decision based on somebody else or something else you would probably be very likely to end up coming back to the same situation and making the decision.
In fact one of the decision you are making right now is to decide whether or not you would like to continue to read this article. For some people have already come to the conclusion that they have a unique technique in which they make all their decision using one form. So they do not need any other way to make their decision. And that is good for they have simplified their life and avoid complication. And the last thing I would like to do is to create complication in anybody life. But so far from what I've learned observing other people decision and my own decision is that there is a little bit more than just finding one technique or style in making decision. For every situation will manipulate many aspect of our emotion and intellect.

  So before I continue on I would like to say that if you are one of those person that find it difficult in always trying to make the right decision to avoid any mistake, and would like to find one technique or style in which you could apply one form to make all your decision. I'm sorry to tell you that there is not one size fits all solution. But don't feel disappointed for that is part of life. For I know that everyone is always looking and struggling to find ways to make things easier. There are some things you can do that are easier, but what did you do for situation in which you have to make difficult decision. You can always tried to avoid them by life has a way of showing it up and bring it back on the path. Believe it or not I do show it can make in which it will help them to begin to develop in learning how to to make different decisions. You will probably find it silly or even amusing but it does work. Above you would see an image that lots of you are familiar with, and it is the game of rock scissor and paper. Yes I know you're probably thinking how can you make the decision based on this silly game. And yes I know this will not help you in making big decision but it will help you to begin in train yourself in how you make decision. It will teach you how to observe other people in what they're going to do. It will help you in half to follow in your emotional, intellect and even though internal instant. Yes this silly game does this and more.


  Now coming back to the article and for those of you who already know that there is more than just a technique or style in making decision. I would tell you that before you use your emotional or intellect in making a decision. Always tried to pause for a moment and see how that particular situation make you feel. Does it affect your ego? Does it affect your emotional? Does it affect your intellect? When you begin to break down into little pieces you would discover that though situation should not really affect you as hard or as terrible as you imagine. Sometime some things will affect you in such a way that if you take your time to contemplate and looked at the situation it is really superficial. Of course some of you are thinking that sometime you will find yourself in a situation in which you have to respond or react quickly. That basically there is not enough time to sit down and pause and contemplate of all the possibilities called that particular situation may be of superficial and should not offend. I would agree with you. For what I have just told you require lots of practice in many years of different situation. But what I am telling you is to try to do those things even after you have made a decision and see if you would have made a better decision. For some time to even have enough time to go back to redo again all fixed that situation. By practicing this form of observation you will eventually develop in a way that would give you enough time to contemplate and still react to the situation.


  One thing is for certain that life cannot be decided by the roll of a dice. And for those of you who are reading this article and now contemplating of the decision you have made in the past and have now some regret, I would advise you that turned the page and move forward. For they are just some things that you just have to live with it. If you can go back and fix the situation, swallowed your pride and go back and fix the situation. But if you cannot then do not torment yourself and try to make the best of things. You will probably be surprised that somewhere in the path of your life in which that situation will come back and you will have the opportunity to fix it. I know I have not giving you enough insight in how you can better make a decision. But I just want to give you these basic information and I will come back to the subject in another article.

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Wisdom from an Owl (Q)

How to properly talk to someone (B)

 

   Good day and welcome to my blog. On my previous article part A on this subject I talk about how to properly talk to someone, whether to friends or loved one. And I've told you the important on public communication without the use of insult or other inappropriate words. Throughout human history communication has always been an important factor in not only how a society grow, but also its structure.
Our communication has evolved from word of mouth, then put words in stone. Then putting words in all kinds of material from the woods, all kinds of dry leaves , and then finally the invention of paper. Now more information is better able to communicate in far distant and greater massive.
But now since we have enter into the age of technology. Our form of communication has become greater and even worldwide communication. 1st we started with the Telegraph then the telephone then the Radio and then the Television, And now it has just been almost 35 year since the invention of the computer available to the general public. And our form of communication has change from mailing a letter to your friend to sending now an email.

  Now comes to the point in which I would like to talk about on this article. And that is Social Network. Not too long ago Facebook started as a simple project of communicating with friends into a worldwide socializing communication. And from there, a new form of language has developed. Like the terminology of the word troll which means someone who make a comment or join a conversation and make statement to agitate or annoying people in social network. That has developed greatly in Facebook because the great majority of the people that are in social network our young people. And it is usually typical of a young individual who has not yet developed the responsibility to act and behave in a responsible manner.

The reason for that kind of of behavior is simply because they can say things to other people without the physical confrontation. For the field they can easily get away with the things that they say without having to deal to confront physically. So they have developed a bad habit of insulting and degrading and even using inappropriate language when communicating with other people. What they fail to realize by developing this bad habit. They are now accidentally applying this in their regular conversation in the physical daily life.

And what you say and how you say it determine a great deal of the kind of personality that is reflected upon other people. The simple conversation will evaluate and judge you based on your conversation. The same thing in the Internet. If you wish people to debate with you and give them the desire to continue to have conversation with you, you must carefully choose the appropriate language. As a small example like the word "idiot". In a every day physical conversation, depending how you say this word it may sound innocent or it may sound a direct insult towards someone. But when you apply it on the Internet it may be in general be interpret as a direct insult. For when you are communicating on the Internet the writing is called "one dimension communication". But when you are physically talking to someone, it is called "multi-dimension communication". For that one word can mean different things depending how the person say it or express it through the physical body. But on the Internet there is no way to really know their intention of that word.

  If you would like more people to socialize with you and add you to their circle because they value your opinion. You must 1st learn to understand the proper communication is the key to success in social network. And that is why Google+ has grown more popular than Facebook. I have been only in social network for less than a year and I have seen the different between Facebook and Google+. It is probably because the older and more matured audience are joining Google+. But a lot of people from Facebook of discovering that Google+ has a greater variety of what they can do in regarding to social network. But unfortunately there also bringing the bad habit that had been established on Facebook. People have to begin to learn and understand that when you a socializing in social network, there are rules of conduct that have to be applied. Insulting and inappropriate word is no way to earn any respect. I do realize and understand that sometime people do get angry some philosophy that people have. I myself sometime find myself wanted to say @%#!&.
but I also understand that is a good way to reject people from wanted to continue to communicate with you. So I have found myself sometime when talking to other people telling them that insult and use of improper word is no way to relay your message that you are trying to put out. Sometime people at that point change their form of conversation, but yet sometime it doesn't. But I do my effort in trying to show people how to create difficulty communication in social network.

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"Life" the most precious commodity. (A)

   Good day everyone and welcome to my blog. Today I would like to talk to you about the most precious commodity anyone can possess. And it is not Gold, Silver, Platinum, Diamond , or any other precious metal. Not even property or stocks or anything of the sort. But it is something that require a great deal of you to maintain and take care. It is something that is with you and will take up your whole entire life to understand and master. And yet somehow you think it belongs to you but it doesn't. It require your devotion and you respect. And believe it or not. It's even more precious than plant or animal.

   I am talking about every single cell in your living body. Not just the body as one. But a collective of millions of cells that make that one body. Probably those who may understand something of what I AM talking about will be a Dr. and a scientists. For the understand of the complex and function of a single cell is very sophisticated . And when it coexist as a collective with other cells, it create a community of such complex and function very little of those can truly understand. Doing the process in which each cells is being divided from the very beginning, in wish to appoint that a chemical reaction occur within the collective. At that moment for in unknown reason and as a mysterious force as you may say, each cell decide what part of the body they're going to be. Even though a cell has the same principle, but they are formed differently from one other part of the body. Like the cells of your foot would be different from the cell of your heart and so on. And yet in the way that would be the most precious commodity. But not completely.

Now you have a complete a sophisticated community compose of millions of cells. And that is what you see before you. Your body. A living organism that move about and have hundreds of function. And yet what makes this living organism defend and above all other living things? Is the development of the brain. It is the only living organism that have the ability to learn a great deal of function. It managed to learn and develop a complex of different sound and create what is known as the alphabet. From the collection of alphabet we have learned to create words that have meaning and definition. From the collection of words were able to put forth a collection of ideas and expression. And from there it is what we have today known as a sophisticated civilization.

 I know a great deal of you are already saying that man is the most destructive animal in this world. But luckily I see life as a constructive and positive view. So I see man as a creative and constructive life form. And so far I managed to explain everything in a scientific point of view.

   Now in a spiritual point of view. The human body is built and construct in a way to hold what makes this universe move. It hold the precious cargo as in the internal soul. And yet we depend on this living organism to grow and develop spiritually. But somehow people take for granted of this living body, by exposing the body to toxics and destructive situation. And not thinking and taking responsibility for the body that has been lended to them in order to move about in the physical world.
How is it that we are able to focus on doing everything to grow in a spiritual aspect. When we did let to take care of this living organism (the body). And always thinking how to save the animal, how to save the plant and even how to save the earth. And we failed to save the most precious commodity on earth. The human life. For it require humanity to save and take care of everything on earth.

And even in a religious point of view. When a religion invoke and advocate the killing and destruction of other innocent human being simply because a Scripture book says so. There's something wrong with that religion. We can all argued, indicating what other religion has put down in their Scripture. And tell you of the killing and destruction. But people fail to see that some of those religion have those situation in the Scripture to describe a metaphor or a philosophy. But this only one religion that actually encourage and advocate killing and destruction. Is without a doubt the Islamic religion.

But let us get back on track to the point that I AM to bring to you. And that is to show you what is truly the most precious commodity that we can hold and possess. And that is our very own life. Once we can understand and master the appreciation and respect of our own life. Then we can understand and appreciate and respect other life.

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How do we teach? (A)

   In another article "why do they know that?" I talk about how sometime people got to know some things. And how different point of view teach us the same thing. On this article I would like to focus on how do we learn. We all know the important and the value of a teacher. In fact every occupation was taught by a teacher. The more educated a society is, the more advanced they are. Education is a form of creating a society civilized.

   For those of you who do not know Malala Yousafzai. She is a Muslim, Hindu girl who wanted nothing but to learn and educate herself. But as you would know, the majority of the Muslim community do not believe that female should be educated. It is so much that she wanted to learn, that a radical Muslim shot her in the head. But because she is a strong soul. She pulled through and survive. Today she is a strong Muslim female activists that is pushing toward giving every Muslim girl the opportunity of an education. While many Muslim female risk their life to go to school to get educated. Many people in different country truly take for granted the idea of going to school.

  But don't think that a teacher is the only source of education. A parent also play an important role in a child educational development. They will be teaching the child not only what they known but also the personal life experience. Given the child the opportunity to learn the different between right and wrong, between ethics and unethical, between moral and immoral. Although a child learn in school in what I called the mechanical learning. But what the shower would learn at home will be them with deeper educational value. For it was set the rules and value for each how to live in a civilized society thing. For it will determine whether when he grow up, that he may develop a chemical that might kill thousands of people. Or develop a medicine that can cure thousands of people.
But don't get me wrong. For both Avenue is as important as the other one. No child should be limits to his maximum potential. But at the same time every child learn and develop different from others.

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   As I have just shown you two avenue sources in which a child to learn from. Now come to the part in which I intended for this article. And that is how do we teach. I will not get into the area in which the Institute of a schoolteacher get their skills. They are already University or College in which an individual can become a schoolteacher. But the area that I wish to talk about is the role of the parent teaching their children. It is true that parent get some of their education skills from their own parent. And then pass it on to their children. But they also use their life experience from their mistake and their achievement. And also pass it on to their children.
Sometime they are some parent that buy books to help them better understand child behavior, and how they can teach them about many issues. I believe that it's not a bad idea. For any parent to obtain any tools to further develop their skills in helping a child development is by all means very helpful. But one thing that has never failed in learning how to teach any child. It simply by beginning to talk to their children.

People always believe that listening is a form of learning. But also talking and sharing your views and opinion is a form of learning also. When you are talking to your child and teaching down some life experience that you have had. You will discover new ideas of how to better show your child what you're trying to express. You will develop skills like metaphor to better shown a picture of what you trying to same. You know what I mean, like the birds and the bees metaphor. It will probably shown every day life situation to bring about the point of view. It really doesn't require to be a scientist or a psychiatrist to teach your child. All it takes is a few moment of your time to sit down and have a conversation. Your shower would learn the skill of communication. Instead of your showered asking questions and getting answer from other stranger. It is better for you shall develop communication with their parent. And remember, don't worry if you do not have all of the answer. It is probably very likely that other one have either.

On a personal note I don't think that "common core" will be of benefits in a group of children or even as an individual. I believe that a shower would be better off by letting teacher work as they see it shower development. And also parent been able to have control what is appropriate for this shot.

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Bless you all and be well.