Making a decision (A)

   Thank you for visiting and welcome to my blog. On this article I will be talking about making decision. From how we do it to why we do it. The reason I would like to talk about decision is that we make decision on a daily basis. In fact one of the major reason of humanity existing on this earth is to learn how to make and control our decision. 90% of our decision is made by you, and 10% decision come from within. Obviously the whole idea is to eventually to bring forth more of the decision within than the one you make. But that I would talk about in another article, for now let's talk about the one you make.

   Above you will see some image that I have put up. It is to give you an idea that not every decision is made in the same way. Some decision will be choosing the right path or road, other would be choosing the right door and to open and go through, and other is to choose the right direction you want to go to and other is finding a way out of a labyrinth. Of course you all know that I'm talking about in a form of a metaphor. Now there is an image of a dice with decision written on, this may be interpret as making decision based on somebody else or something else other than yours. For me that would be the worst form of making a decision. But of course many people make those kind of decisions. When you make a decision based on somebody else or something else you would probably be very likely to end up coming back to the same situation and making the decision.
In fact one of the decision you are making right now is to decide whether or not you would like to continue to read this article. For some people have already come to the conclusion that they have a unique technique in which they make all their decision using one form. So they do not need any other way to make their decision. And that is good for they have simplified their life and avoid complication. And the last thing I would like to do is to create complication in anybody life. But so far from what I've learned observing other people decision and my own decision is that there is a little bit more than just finding one technique or style in making decision. For every situation will manipulate many aspect of our emotion and intellect.

  So before I continue on I would like to say that if you are one of those person that find it difficult in always trying to make the right decision to avoid any mistake, and would like to find one technique or style in which you could apply one form to make all your decision. I'm sorry to tell you that there is not one size fits all solution. But don't feel disappointed for that is part of life. For I know that everyone is always looking and struggling to find ways to make things easier. There are some things you can do that are easier, but what did you do for situation in which you have to make difficult decision. You can always tried to avoid them by life has a way of showing it up and bring it back on the path. Believe it or not I do show it can make in which it will help them to begin to develop in learning how to to make different decisions. You will probably find it silly or even amusing but it does work. Above you would see an image that lots of you are familiar with, and it is the game of rock scissor and paper. Yes I know you're probably thinking how can you make the decision based on this silly game. And yes I know this will not help you in making big decision but it will help you to begin in train yourself in how you make decision. It will teach you how to observe other people in what they're going to do. It will help you in half to follow in your emotional, intellect and even though internal instant. Yes this silly game does this and more.


  Now coming back to the article and for those of you who already know that there is more than just a technique or style in making decision. I would tell you that before you use your emotional or intellect in making a decision. Always tried to pause for a moment and see how that particular situation make you feel. Does it affect your ego? Does it affect your emotional? Does it affect your intellect? When you begin to break down into little pieces you would discover that though situation should not really affect you as hard or as terrible as you imagine. Sometime some things will affect you in such a way that if you take your time to contemplate and looked at the situation it is really superficial. Of course some of you are thinking that sometime you will find yourself in a situation in which you have to respond or react quickly. That basically there is not enough time to sit down and pause and contemplate of all the possibilities called that particular situation may be of superficial and should not offend. I would agree with you. For what I have just told you require lots of practice in many years of different situation. But what I am telling you is to try to do those things even after you have made a decision and see if you would have made a better decision. For some time to even have enough time to go back to redo again all fixed that situation. By practicing this form of observation you will eventually develop in a way that would give you enough time to contemplate and still react to the situation.


  One thing is for certain that life cannot be decided by the roll of a dice. And for those of you who are reading this article and now contemplating of the decision you have made in the past and have now some regret, I would advise you that turned the page and move forward. For they are just some things that you just have to live with it. If you can go back and fix the situation, swallowed your pride and go back and fix the situation. But if you cannot then do not torment yourself and try to make the best of things. You will probably be surprised that somewhere in the path of your life in which that situation will come back and you will have the opportunity to fix it. I know I have not giving you enough insight in how you can better make a decision. But I just want to give you these basic information and I will come back to the subject in another article.

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Wisdom from an Owl (Q)

How to properly talk to someone (B)

 

   Good day and welcome to my blog. On my previous article part A on this subject I talk about how to properly talk to someone, whether to friends or loved one. And I've told you the important on public communication without the use of insult or other inappropriate words. Throughout human history communication has always been an important factor in not only how a society grow, but also its structure.
Our communication has evolved from word of mouth, then put words in stone. Then putting words in all kinds of material from the woods, all kinds of dry leaves , and then finally the invention of paper. Now more information is better able to communicate in far distant and greater massive.
But now since we have enter into the age of technology. Our form of communication has become greater and even worldwide communication. 1st we started with the Telegraph then the telephone then the Radio and then the Television, And now it has just been almost 35 year since the invention of the computer available to the general public. And our form of communication has change from mailing a letter to your friend to sending now an email.

  Now comes to the point in which I would like to talk about on this article. And that is Social Network. Not too long ago Facebook started as a simple project of communicating with friends into a worldwide socializing communication. And from there, a new form of language has developed. Like the terminology of the word troll which means someone who make a comment or join a conversation and make statement to agitate or annoying people in social network. That has developed greatly in Facebook because the great majority of the people that are in social network our young people. And it is usually typical of a young individual who has not yet developed the responsibility to act and behave in a responsible manner.

The reason for that kind of of behavior is simply because they can say things to other people without the physical confrontation. For the field they can easily get away with the things that they say without having to deal to confront physically. So they have developed a bad habit of insulting and degrading and even using inappropriate language when communicating with other people. What they fail to realize by developing this bad habit. They are now accidentally applying this in their regular conversation in the physical daily life.

And what you say and how you say it determine a great deal of the kind of personality that is reflected upon other people. The simple conversation will evaluate and judge you based on your conversation. The same thing in the Internet. If you wish people to debate with you and give them the desire to continue to have conversation with you, you must carefully choose the appropriate language. As a small example like the word "idiot". In a every day physical conversation, depending how you say this word it may sound innocent or it may sound a direct insult towards someone. But when you apply it on the Internet it may be in general be interpret as a direct insult. For when you are communicating on the Internet the writing is called "one dimension communication". But when you are physically talking to someone, it is called "multi-dimension communication". For that one word can mean different things depending how the person say it or express it through the physical body. But on the Internet there is no way to really know their intention of that word.

  If you would like more people to socialize with you and add you to their circle because they value your opinion. You must 1st learn to understand the proper communication is the key to success in social network. And that is why Google+ has grown more popular than Facebook. I have been only in social network for less than a year and I have seen the different between Facebook and Google+. It is probably because the older and more matured audience are joining Google+. But a lot of people from Facebook of discovering that Google+ has a greater variety of what they can do in regarding to social network. But unfortunately there also bringing the bad habit that had been established on Facebook. People have to begin to learn and understand that when you a socializing in social network, there are rules of conduct that have to be applied. Insulting and inappropriate word is no way to earn any respect. I do realize and understand that sometime people do get angry some philosophy that people have. I myself sometime find myself wanted to say @%#!&.
but I also understand that is a good way to reject people from wanted to continue to communicate with you. So I have found myself sometime when talking to other people telling them that insult and use of improper word is no way to relay your message that you are trying to put out. Sometime people at that point change their form of conversation, but yet sometime it doesn't. But I do my effort in trying to show people how to create difficulty communication in social network.

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"Life" the most precious commodity. (A)

   Good day everyone and welcome to my blog. Today I would like to talk to you about the most precious commodity anyone can possess. And it is not Gold, Silver, Platinum, Diamond , or any other precious metal. Not even property or stocks or anything of the sort. But it is something that require a great deal of you to maintain and take care. It is something that is with you and will take up your whole entire life to understand and master. And yet somehow you think it belongs to you but it doesn't. It require your devotion and you respect. And believe it or not. It's even more precious than plant or animal.

   I am talking about every single cell in your living body. Not just the body as one. But a collective of millions of cells that make that one body. Probably those who may understand something of what I AM talking about will be a Dr. and a scientists. For the understand of the complex and function of a single cell is very sophisticated . And when it coexist as a collective with other cells, it create a community of such complex and function very little of those can truly understand. Doing the process in which each cells is being divided from the very beginning, in wish to appoint that a chemical reaction occur within the collective. At that moment for in unknown reason and as a mysterious force as you may say, each cell decide what part of the body they're going to be. Even though a cell has the same principle, but they are formed differently from one other part of the body. Like the cells of your foot would be different from the cell of your heart and so on. And yet in the way that would be the most precious commodity. But not completely.

Now you have a complete a sophisticated community compose of millions of cells. And that is what you see before you. Your body. A living organism that move about and have hundreds of function. And yet what makes this living organism defend and above all other living things? Is the development of the brain. It is the only living organism that have the ability to learn a great deal of function. It managed to learn and develop a complex of different sound and create what is known as the alphabet. From the collection of alphabet we have learned to create words that have meaning and definition. From the collection of words were able to put forth a collection of ideas and expression. And from there it is what we have today known as a sophisticated civilization.

 I know a great deal of you are already saying that man is the most destructive animal in this world. But luckily I see life as a constructive and positive view. So I see man as a creative and constructive life form. And so far I managed to explain everything in a scientific point of view.

   Now in a spiritual point of view. The human body is built and construct in a way to hold what makes this universe move. It hold the precious cargo as in the internal soul. And yet we depend on this living organism to grow and develop spiritually. But somehow people take for granted of this living body, by exposing the body to toxics and destructive situation. And not thinking and taking responsibility for the body that has been lended to them in order to move about in the physical world.
How is it that we are able to focus on doing everything to grow in a spiritual aspect. When we did let to take care of this living organism (the body). And always thinking how to save the animal, how to save the plant and even how to save the earth. And we failed to save the most precious commodity on earth. The human life. For it require humanity to save and take care of everything on earth.

And even in a religious point of view. When a religion invoke and advocate the killing and destruction of other innocent human being simply because a Scripture book says so. There's something wrong with that religion. We can all argued, indicating what other religion has put down in their Scripture. And tell you of the killing and destruction. But people fail to see that some of those religion have those situation in the Scripture to describe a metaphor or a philosophy. But this only one religion that actually encourage and advocate killing and destruction. Is without a doubt the Islamic religion.

But let us get back on track to the point that I AM to bring to you. And that is to show you what is truly the most precious commodity that we can hold and possess. And that is our very own life. Once we can understand and master the appreciation and respect of our own life. Then we can understand and appreciate and respect other life.

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How do we teach? (A)

   In another article "why do they know that?" I talk about how sometime people got to know some things. And how different point of view teach us the same thing. On this article I would like to focus on how do we learn. We all know the important and the value of a teacher. In fact every occupation was taught by a teacher. The more educated a society is, the more advanced they are. Education is a form of creating a society civilized.

   For those of you who do not know Malala Yousafzai. She is a Muslim, Hindu girl who wanted nothing but to learn and educate herself. But as you would know, the majority of the Muslim community do not believe that female should be educated. It is so much that she wanted to learn, that a radical Muslim shot her in the head. But because she is a strong soul. She pulled through and survive. Today she is a strong Muslim female activists that is pushing toward giving every Muslim girl the opportunity of an education. While many Muslim female risk their life to go to school to get educated. Many people in different country truly take for granted the idea of going to school.

  But don't think that a teacher is the only source of education. A parent also play an important role in a child educational development. They will be teaching the child not only what they known but also the personal life experience. Given the child the opportunity to learn the different between right and wrong, between ethics and unethical, between moral and immoral. Although a child learn in school in what I called the mechanical learning. But what the shower would learn at home will be them with deeper educational value. For it was set the rules and value for each how to live in a civilized society thing. For it will determine whether when he grow up, that he may develop a chemical that might kill thousands of people. Or develop a medicine that can cure thousands of people.
But don't get me wrong. For both Avenue is as important as the other one. No child should be limits to his maximum potential. But at the same time every child learn and develop different from others.

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   As I have just shown you two avenue sources in which a child to learn from. Now come to the part in which I intended for this article. And that is how do we teach. I will not get into the area in which the Institute of a schoolteacher get their skills. They are already University or College in which an individual can become a schoolteacher. But the area that I wish to talk about is the role of the parent teaching their children. It is true that parent get some of their education skills from their own parent. And then pass it on to their children. But they also use their life experience from their mistake and their achievement. And also pass it on to their children.
Sometime they are some parent that buy books to help them better understand child behavior, and how they can teach them about many issues. I believe that it's not a bad idea. For any parent to obtain any tools to further develop their skills in helping a child development is by all means very helpful. But one thing that has never failed in learning how to teach any child. It simply by beginning to talk to their children.

People always believe that listening is a form of learning. But also talking and sharing your views and opinion is a form of learning also. When you are talking to your child and teaching down some life experience that you have had. You will discover new ideas of how to better show your child what you're trying to express. You will develop skills like metaphor to better shown a picture of what you trying to same. You know what I mean, like the birds and the bees metaphor. It will probably shown every day life situation to bring about the point of view. It really doesn't require to be a scientist or a psychiatrist to teach your child. All it takes is a few moment of your time to sit down and have a conversation. Your shower would learn the skill of communication. Instead of your showered asking questions and getting answer from other stranger. It is better for you shall develop communication with their parent. And remember, don't worry if you do not have all of the answer. It is probably very likely that other one have either.

On a personal note I don't think that "common core" will be of benefits in a group of children or even as an individual. I believe that a shower would be better off by letting teacher work as they see it shower development. And also parent been able to have control what is appropriate for this shot.

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A riddle to think about. (AA)

   Good day everyone. This is the answer for "a riddle to think about. (A)". Although many of you may have a different answer. The riddle may be expressed with different answer. But it does not necessarily mean that you are wrong. And I did not make this riddle to make it about right or wrong. But the answer I AM going to give you is specific for this riddle at this particular time.

[My philosophy-truth.]

   I would like to begin by saying that we are living in a very unique time of humanity. The form of thinking and expression has changed dramatically. As humanity has always look for answer to understand every situation that we encounter in our lives. Now with so many distortion in the society across the world. Humanity is desperately seeking for answer. So society is being expose to new ways of thinking and expressing that doesn't coexist with conservative or traditional thinking. They believe, by doing this they will find a better way of dealing with the unbalance occurring in our life. And the fact of the matter that this is creating more problem on top of the problem.

What I'm trying to say that humanity as a collective is being tested. As I mentioned before in the riddle that the tens souls that came to earth have to achieve one of these attribute. Or principal at some time it is called.


1. Answer
2. Cleverness
3. Understanding
4. Kindness or good deed
5. Strength
6. Splendor
7. Eternity
8. Glory
9. Establishing
10. Divine presence


   Each of these attribute has to be achieve. Some of these attribute you may have already achieved and some of these you need to complete it. Before you judge yourself and grade yourself on which of these attribute you have already achieved. Do not jump to the conclusion that you no longer need to focus on those particular attribute. When you think you may have achieve a particular attribute, you may probably not be aware that you still are a long way from completing that particular attribute. Just disregard that you may think you have fulfilled an attribute, and continue to learn to perfect each attribute.
Why these particular attribute or principles you need to achieve. And why not add other different kind of attribute. It is too long to explain, and let us just for the sake of argument that these are the particular attribute that you need to achieve. I will explain these principle. In another time.

Each of these attribute will help us to disengage with the many things that attached to this physical world. For the end nothing of this world is forever. In fact, not even the sun will be forever. But one thing is for ever and that is your soul. If you are an individual who have study from the many schools and philosophy, you would notice that all have something in particular in comment. They all talk about the one source. Meaning that they all mention that we as an individual come from one source.
If you have a scientific point of view, you would say that we came from the original matter before the Big Bang. If you have a religious point of view, you will say that we came from the original creator or the original 1st thought of the creator. What ever point of view you may have. I know for sure that you would have a philosophy of some source that everything came from one particular source. Each of these attribute that you need to achieve will help you to disengage with your true self. This is in order to fuze together with the original source. We were no longer consider ourselves as individual, but part of the original source. Just like the cells in your body. Although they function in take care of themselves as individual, they are part of a greater organism.

When we talk about ourselves. We will classified ourselves as "I am". But there is a philosophy that goes beyond an individual. And we should classified ourselves as "I AM". This is where the other part of the riddle comes in . When I said "at the end of time. Only one would leave with the brightness of the sun. And yet there was no soul that was left behind". At the end of time could mean that one lifetime of the individual or one lifetime of the earth. Which would probably mean many lifetime or as some may recognize it as reincarnation. Although many people may think that the concept of reincarnation is a Hindu or Buddhist philosophy. And that it is not true. For in many culture and religion it is basically a universal philosophy. But without getting into too much argument of reincarnation. Let us just say that I'm talking about one lifetime. If you manage to achieve all 10 attribute. You will probably find yourself not looking as an individual, but as a collective. When the time comes when all 10 souls disengage themselves as individual and become onto one great soul or to the one source. Whether it be 10 souls or Hundred souls or even a Million souls. And that is why that one soul the left the earth with the brightness of the sun. Because it is a collective of all the souls joining to be one great soul.


[Answer to the riddle.]

   So the answer is that all souls at the end of time joined to be one great soul when they have achieve all attribute..


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A riddle to think about. (A)

10 soul came to earth.
Each one achieve one of these attribute.


1. Awareness
2. Cleverness
3. Understanding
4. Kindness or good deed
5. Strength
6. Splendor
7. Eternity
8. Glory
9. Establishing
10. Divine presence


At the end of time.
Only One will leave with the brightness of the sun.
And yet there was no soul that was left behind.
Where did they go?

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Here is the riddle to think about. What happened that at the end only one was left and is brighter than the sun? The answer is simple. Although they are many interpretation, at the end there is only one answer. They are many school of philosophy and philosophical that teach this. At the end of 7 days. I will give the answer. It will be my philosophy truth. Meaning you will see it as a philosophy, but it is my truth.